[Free I Need Your Love Is That True? How to Stop Seeking Love Approval and Appreciation and Start Finding Them Instead] Pdf BY Byron Katie – DOC, Kindle & PDF Read
READ & DOWNLOAD Ú PDF, DOC, TXT or eBook Ù Byron KatieI debated putting this book on my profile because *I found
the title a little embarrassing But then I ealized the ironytitle a little embarrassing But then I ealized the irony that thought This book is *found the title a little embarrassing But then I ealized the irony of that thought This book is how you project what other
are thinking of you and how harmful that process is So my embarrassment about eading this book to do with fear that my GoodReads friends would think that I m weak and clueless about Walden relationships if I was caughteading such a book So if I deny Trpljenje Mlade Hane reading this book I would have learned nothing from it This leaves me no choice but to put it on my list unabashedly So here it is I actually listened to it as an audio book which I m not sure I suggest The author is a little effusive which can be off putting I started to get annoyed that she called everyone sweetheart but she is otherwise very sincere Once you get past delivery there is a lot of good to come out of this book Youealize how much you assume what other people might think or feel about you when you have no empirical proof of that I love the constant uestioning of Who would I be without that thought There is so much I want to get Sultana rid of based on this theory I will probablyefer to this book and process intermittently I m Maarten T Hart De Kroongetuige really grateful for it I veryandomly stumbled on this book and expected it to be hokey and wishy washy and weird especially with the first phrase in the title Rather it is one of the most helpful self help books I ve encountered and as someone well versed in the genre that s saying something The most valuable concept I picked up from this book was the word unstuckness The author explains that often when we have a strong feeling about soemthing we can t see any other possibility The example given was that your boyfriend was offered a job 1000 miles away Our brains seize on how that s horrible unacceptable just bad bad bad She invites us to try to get unstuck by coming up with even ONE genuine eason to offer true support For someone like me who can become obsessive over. Byron Katie's extremely simple programme called The Work was explored in her previous hugely popular book Loving What Is In it she explained how easy it is to be confused by the mental gymnastics we all play in our minds and how looking closely at our thoughts and whether they are true can bring us a life of integrity and happinessHer second book uestions everything we have been taught to th. Some negativeanxious thoughtsfears that s a helpful tactic simply articulated that I can understand and start putting into practice For that alone I m a huge fan ofpeople are thinking of you and how harmful that process is So my embarrassment about eading this book
THIS BOOK I HAVE STRUGGLED WITHbook I have struggled with need for attention approval validation etc all my life and I m too old for that shit At some point *you have to grow out of it I can see myself using this book often as a eference to *have to grow out of it I can see myself using this book often as a eference to just that This book came into my life like a healing angel when I just had a very heartbroken and confusing week with an ex loverWhen it comes to love and omance men and boys and being with them I am completely hopelessly helpless when I m loved my world has singing butterflies smiling unicorns dancing in ainbow colored cotton candies there are hopes for tomorrow and a smile on my face all day but when I feel neglected my world s a dead place I don t even have a world or a life or anything I live in the blackhole of eternal emptiness I can feel one way or the other in a day it s just that dramaticSuch extreme moodswing is probably not healthy and the worse is that I CAN look tough I CAN act strong so I tend to keep a lot of
inside and never used my tears as a weapon or a tool to get me anything Pity is not what I need LOVE isBut do we REALLY NEED LOVEThat s what the book s about People cry and die kick and scream when they don t get the love that they think they NEED but why bother end your suffering Acknowledge that we DON T NEED that person to love us ultimately we just gotta love ourselves firstWhen in times of fear and doubts and bullshit it is SO HARD to emind self that we still have ourselves and a whole world to love This book guides you to turn things around and get your power back to stand up with your head held high again You don t have to feel small you shouldn t feel less you don t need that one person ok It s true Byron Katie is some kind of genius The four uestions she has you ask yourself about ANY thought are simple and st. Ink and do to find love and approval and shows how to make the transition to an effective non manipulative way of connecting with others When you live your life focused on thoughts such as 'I need a man' or 'She doesn't care about me' you live in fear and end up lonely stressed heartbroken and depressed However when you start to explore The Work you can begin to enuire into many of the unues. .emotions inside and
the matter pretty much ight away But after the uestions it s the turnaround that eally can your viewpoint perspective understanding entire way you think about your situation and your story In short when you have a thought that makes you suffer in some way say My husband should apologize for ignoring me this morning you ask yourself four uestions about that thought 1 Is it true 2 Can you absolutely know that it s true 3of the matter pretty much ight away But after the uestions it s the turnaround that eally can
How do you eact what happens when you have that thought and 4do you The People Of The Parish react what happens when you have that thought and 4 would you be without the thought Then you turn the phrase around to the other person to yourself then entirely I should apologize for ignoring my husband this morning I should apologize for ignoring myself this morning My husband should not apologize My description seems shallow but theesults are pretty amazing the way your thoughts suddenly get grounded in Fighting Weight realityather than getting lost in your own victimizing dreamland Suffice it to say I use these techniues all the time now and it is incredible to notice how my patience kindness and compassion have grown mostly for my self I think she pretty much says the same *thing in all of her books so pick any one up and you ll get the picture This is just the *in all of her books so pick any one up and you ll get the picture This is just the one I had Maybe start with Loving What Is if you Alliance Bloodline 1 re curious This is a great book but it definitely needs to beead after Loving What Is It is in a way a Anna Countess Of The Covenant reminder of how The Work works but it goes in depth with personalelationships I don t know that I could ever A Lost Witch A Modern Witch 7 react in a calm collected non sarcastic way when dealing with some of the scenarios presented in this book but I suppose that Katie is offering the ideal to work toward My favorite concept in this book is to try to focus on what behaviors we do to gain approval or love from others and eliminate them in an effort to be authentic If you are manipulating your behavior to gain approval or acceptance your love is false BE YOURSELF. Tioned beliefs you have lived by and can begin to changeThrough 'I Need Your Love Is It True'eaders can explore what happens in their mind when they believe they need love appreciation and approval When they The Greenhaven Encyclopedia Of Greek Amp Roman Mythology realise the truth of what'seally going on inside them there is no doubt they can find eal love and mutual understanding expecially with the help of Byron Katie's wisdom and compassi. .